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Proud Father Of 2 Kids, started this blog to extend my sharing to benefit more people for positive and fulfilling life, thanks to an advise from a teacher in Special School. Encouragement looks at what we can be and believes in the best for each of us. It is also love in action, allowing one to take time to meditate on small miracles of life, to build confidence in ourselves and build that confidence in others as well.

Friday, December 11, 2015

His Maiden Flight For A Great Holiday Experience

The Christmas Tree was set up just before thanksgiving days.  Taken with grandma and cousin Deric.


Holiday engagement has been enriching and encouraging thus far, completed his first school program on laser gun and archery tag, it was his first hands on though and attended 3 out of 4 sessions. Had also met up with one of his school mate for play date, look forward to inviting him to visit our house during the coming Christmas festive season.


He had also completed his swimming introductory course with some friends, it was a great learning experience for parents like me to also acquire some basic knowledge of teaching the child how to survive in water through swimming.  Thumbs up to Michael and the kids for the truely enjoyable sessions and looks forward to seeing all around in not to distant future in the pool again.


For the first time, we decided to fly over to visit my in-law in Tanjung Sepat, We were all excited as this is will be our little hero's maiden flight.  He too was excited and we embrace for anything that may come in his first flight out of home.


We had brought along a earmuffs for him to seek comfort in case the sound is getting too overwhelm into his head for this first time experience.


When we landed as normal as we would hope to expect, we were all smiling and happy that he had made this small little dream come true, flying on a plane with family.  We took a cab from airport and arrive at our destination just in time for lunch.  It has been more than 2 years since I last visited my in-law in Tanjung Sepat, a place rich and well known for its seafood, bah kut teh, coffee just to name a few.


The sun rise and sun set were as captivating being near to the South Western coast of M'sia


Different location have difference feel


Taken this picture with him for some sentiment values, where it was here that we had held our wedding dinner for M'sia friends and relatives.  Sad to hear that it will be demolished soon to give way for re-development, surely this famous land mark the Lover's Bridge will not be the same again than before..


He had a great time playing with his cousins, eat, play and bonding with in-law family.



The next generation have grown up and expanded with 1 additional member in blessing, Jayden who is about coming 2 months old soon


We stayed for 3 nights and travelled to Port Dickson for one night stay at Avillion PD


The room is big and facilities are good


We love the sun, sea and the hospitality of the staffs

The sun set/rise view was another blissful moment.


All of us had a great time too with many photos taken for another sweet memories


We will return PD for more next time with more frequent visit to my in-laws.


I thanked my sister-in-law and nephew for sending us to the airport, and bid them goodbye after a Subway lunch at the airport. It was all thumbs up for my little hero for this short holiday in M'sia.

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Friday, November 20, 2015

Another Year Of Progress With Thanks

The school term for 2015 learning had just concluded with the start of year end school holiday today, what A Year ! 

The last term had been an exciting and fruitful one, the family attended The Purple Parade with him.


We managed to catch up with friends and parents within this special community.  It was a movement fill with love and encouragement, another successful event for the 3rd year running and counting on.


His sister just turned 14, another great moment to treasure at each years of celebration with lunch out together.


Whenever I run during weekend, I will always rally with him to join me, to build up his stamina and body muscular system,.another smile for our wefie..


He just started to learn swimming right after his exam, so blessed to have crossed path with the coach and catch up with some parents who join the group session.


One of whom he had been with together during EIP back in 2011 and glad to have taken another recently in 2015 playing table soccer after the swimming lesson, must have been a different ball game altogether as both has grown up taller.  Hopeful both can grow up to be a fine young men overcoming their own challenges and also helping other to over come theirs one day.


It is also a time of appreciating his teachers and thanking them for their hard work, support and encouragement to my little hero,  Though we parents believe more can be done by the teachers but there is also a limit as to how much each teacher can expend and do more with every child having different needs. There were several hidden agenda unfold during natural classroom/school setting as social demand increases, we were glad that teachers were able to take prompt actions to mitigate and redirected the children to calm down and remain cool and safe in most occasions, it will always be work in progress.   We have to keep our faith with the SPED Team because it must have not been easy task for them.  We will have to go with the flow to teach whenever opportunity arises and shared from our end with an open mind and mutual trust in reducing our effort to breed success for the child. On the academic front, we were happy for him though he had not achieved much as we wish for but he had all improved his results vs semester 1.  His gym evakuation and step aerobic program too had improved even more.  We shall continue to re-learn, practise and work even harder for improvement.  We are proud of him having Path this far towards his Light.  Look forward to new learning journey coming 2016.  Life is all about choice making, making hard choices...but we are glad he get a chance to progress and we shall never look back but continue to expend even more effort and energy to help him to level up.


He is more mindful as he grows to seek recognition too, he starts to feel sad not being recognize, we create a family recognition and told, him that we recognize him for his improvement, but if he wants the school recognition, then he has to work hard with good thinking to help his teachers and friends be happy and learn together.  He is more social seeking these days, generally friendly and cherishes his classmates very much and whenever something happen to them, he will like to help but will end up making thing worst.  Many repeat role play and reinforcement work in progress at home on the dos and don'ts.  School and classroom environment is still the best training ground for such hidden agenda in the social context, we have to keep our faith with the SPED Team.    


With advise from teacher sharing in last IEP, we are structuring him to start reading more story books online to improve his vocab and comprehension skills(5Ws and 1H), though he still prefer watching more than reading.


We had registered him for two school enrichment programs duriing his year end holidays, and also looking forward to visiting his grandparents in Malaysia cum 4 nights holiday in early Dec, we are all excited for him being his first flight experience on board a plane.  Stay tune for next blog update then, wishing all a wonderful and adventurous holidays ahead.


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Saturday, September 26, 2015

Celebrating 10 Years Of Birthday 2015

10 years ago, we planted a seed, today 10 years later he has been such a blessing to family, friends and special educators whom has crossed path during this journey less travel over the past years. This beautiful seed, my star, my hero, my friend and my son has taught us great lesson in life, about compassion, patience, courage, persistence, perseverance, simple joy and pleasure but above all, LOVE. 

We are thankful that he had come thus far and take joy in every challenges unfold and over came and still over coming as more challenges unfolding as he grows up further and learn more complex skill about living. 


Over the years...



His first year
His 2nd year
His 3rd year was spent with his in-law family, po po, gong, aunts and cousins as we attended his 5th aunt wedding.  I recalled that a cake was bought on the night of his birthday by his "Da Yi" but he did not enjoy and went into tantrum as the environment was noisy with the celebratory mood and we were some what puzzle not knowing the under lying cause back then.

Today he has little or no melt down with better control and self regulation, kudos to SPED Team for the right support and teaching.

Celebrating his 4th year of living, concrete learner...step by step, slowly but surely..
Trying something different for his 5th years of celebration, at my sister's place. To stretch him on changes he is expected to embrace in life. Not all will be as expected all the time, need to embrace change and learn to take healthy perspective at time.
6 years old, simple cake with love
7 years old, taken with his sister
8 years old, growing up together, candy crush era...
9 years old, from a little star to small hero

This year is our nation SG50 Golden Jubilee celebration and also his 10th Birthday.

We were running out of idea what birthday cake to get him as he is growing up each year into a sensible young boy.  Happen to see this in a cake shop and that was it "MInecraft" a computer game that he has been playing the past couple of years, he is good at it not only playing but downloading map from server and playing in multiplex and creative mode which we can never comprehend
A simple birthday celebration with love, just among close family members is what matters, though he will crave for friends too these days to seek more social out of his own perspective.


He is literally happy with simple things and never fail to cheer us up with his smile in return.  
My mum also took this opportunity to present to each of her grandchildren a SG50 commemorative notes wishing all A Happy and Healthy Life towards SG100.  A memorable celebration indeed!

In the Chinese calendar, he was in fact born one day after celebrating mid autumn Festival, Hence in this midst of festive occasion, here is a wish to him "A Happy 10th Birthday and many more blissful 10 years of celebration to come."




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Saturday, September 5, 2015

Term 3 '15 Highlights - Going with the bliss

Time flies, last post was made just before start of Term 3 and now we are in the midst 1 week Term break to welcome Term 4. Term 3 was another history in the making with lots of cheers and joys and bliss:-

Every Child A Seed Program: My Plant Journal
He had enjoyed learning plant parts and their function, growing up and reaching new height each week forward.

The family attended a family outing with mummy's company, coincidentally a day out on farm tour, where he can get to have first hand experience observing and understand growing beautiful seeds, vegetables in a natural environment and getting massage by fishes and catching long gang fishes.

I spy....do yiu know where am I?   What a blissful day? So thankful to a wonderful company.

This year, our Nation celebrate 50 years of Independences, our whole family attended SG50 National Day Dinners in our neighbourhood and had a great time eating and catching up with each others and taking photos, I was telling the children that they will be lucky to witness SG50 & probably will live long enough to celebrate SG100,  

We visited the Garden By The Bay during the Jubilee weekend and enjoy once again the beautiful greenery and multi-colour flowers display within the 2 exhibits at Flower Dome and Cloud Forest.
Beside the plants and flowers, he enjoyed also the waterfall and taking the lift through the various levels.

There random moments of simple joy in playtime, silent reading, eating durians and best of all he had a new toy, the Wii U game stations.  It has elevated my bonding with him further, fighting with CPU and each others, opening up our interactiona nd also improving the quality of our communication.


We had also build the lego blocks to commemorate SG50 & I had made him a new reward sticker chart to motivate him to step up and do well in his academic for coming Term 4 and to have a strong finish for the year.

In life, whenever we begin to do the best and we create a place and we create preparation, then that’s when the blessing oftentimes will come.  It may not come over night but sometimes it just come faster than you expected in a moment while others it may take some journey before you feel it.

We look forward to more good things to come in Term 4.

Winner's Statement: A child's mind is not a bucket to fill, but a fire to ignite.